Hoi, ik ben Sharine DWAALSTER

Wie ben ik?

Hi! My name is Sharine and I’m a kind, caring, emphatic, confident, intelligent, intuitive, spiritual, quite funny, honest, no-nonsense, strong and courageous human being who also still goes left when she should've gone right, who still feels scared and insecure at times, who still loses her patience more often than she would like to admit to and who wonders if she's the only one who would love a special place where she could just go to scream. In short, this human being regularly drives herself nuts just like you and definitely isn’t always as awesome and amazing as she’d like to be.

But I'm also committed to being the best version of myself (mostly because I would really love for this to be my last trip to earth) and walking this path with some of you to share what I’ve learned and unlearned from falling, and stumbling, and growing through life, seems to be part of the plan.

I’ve always been fascinated by what makes us tick—why we think, feel, and act the way we do, so I've done my share of courses, classes and training programs (and I still do) but what I think actually equips and qualifies me even more to do this beautiful and most fulfilling work is my natural gift for picking up on what’s beneath the surface and connecting with people on a real, human level. Because in the end... we are all just walking each other home.

Hoe kan ik je helpen?

As life unfolds our experiences and the memories and judgements of those experiences shape how we view the world around us; they shape how we think, who we think we are, how we behave, our beliefs, the choices we make, and thus ultimately our reality. When this reality does not match who we in essence are, it creates feelings of unease, disharmony and imbalance. These then show up in our lives as procrastination, self-doubt, self-criticism, blame, anxiety, strained relationships, feeling lost, stressed out, overwhelmed, unmotivated, disconnected and stuck, just to name a few. And while most of us are not to blame for our woundedness, we are definitely responsible for our own healing.

And although this might not be what you want to hear, it may just be exactly what you need to hear.
Know that the point isn't for you to blame or beat yourself up for whatever's not right in your life; it's so you can hit pause and take an honest look at what you're putting up with, what you're allowing, what it is you're doing, how you are contributing to and co-creating whatever it is you find yourself in and why. The point is always for you to become aware, more aware of yourself, because awareness brings choice with it.

And that’s where I come in. My job is to help guide you on your path to awareness, to owning your truth, to getting clear about who you are and what you want and support you in making the shifts and changes you feel are necessary for your wellbeing and inner peace.

Please note that I do not have one-size-fits-all and quick-fix programs. Every client is unique and so is every coaching relationship. My aim is to create a safe space for your self-discovery, a space in which you are able to open up, stand in your truth and do the work of letting go and transforming all that no longer serves you. Through open and honest conversations, by applying my knowledge, using different techniques and tools and not in the least by following my own inner guidance, we will work together to discover who your authentic Self is in a way that authentically fits you.

VWO - OSB te Amsterdam
NEDERLANDS RECHT - Erasmus Universiteit te Rotterdam
THE EFFECTIVE LEADERSHIP COURSE - Erasmus Universiteit te Rotterdam
NLP PRACTIONER & MOTIVATIONAL COACH - Global NLP te Venice Beach, CA
LIFE COACHING COURSE - The Academy of Modern Applied Psychology via Udemy
IMPACTING LEADERS COURSE - by Michael Neill via Mindvalley
SHADOW WORK PRACTIONER - Centre of Excellence